I want to join a fraternity at SJSU with a house. However, I'm afraid I won't get a bid.?

I'm scard I won't get a bid because the men in most frats are hot and athletic and popular and talkative. But I'm not really good-looking or talktative. But I still wanna join to make friends and form strong bonds and it will help my GPA. I'm just afraid of rejection or being ridiculed. What should I do?