The meaning of this?

Okay... here's my take. I think many people have self-destructing behaviors. People who are self-abusive tend to consciously, or sub-consiously sabatoge sources of stability and happiness in their life. I would say that people like this tend to live the highs and lows of their life very differently. So if you meet a woman coming off a low point, they will invite the happiness and stability into their life, but once they begin to reach a high they will do something to ruin it. For the innocent person envolved in their life they would probably wonder what they did wrong, or think it's their fault. Thus, don't blame yourself, you were apparently a stabalizing factor in her life.....